Where's your proof that your social decline was because you converted?

Noir d'Raoulette wrote:

Seeing as how you're a n00b, I'm going to refrain from posting the wall of text.

i believe the correct term is n3wb. n00b is just a normal idiotic person, n3wb is the L33T way of saying new at something, but all i have to say to this person, is "WTF, get a life!!!! you want friends, instead of complaining, do something about it. its the same with fat people; they're sad theyre fat, but they dont DO anything about it."



The harch reality: people are cruel devils who will screw you off anytime they can. take it from 12 year old.

SWEETS wrote:

I am practically new to myspace..You know when I heard of myspace it seemed like a place for teens to "hook-up"..It seemed like the newest fad and the cool thing you can go to myspace and find a "friend with benifits" because thats all 99% of the men want anyways..Any how since I have gotten saved and became a Christian (to the very best of my ability)..I notice I have 0 real friends..I mean where my phone used to ring off the hook daily..no one calls at all besides my mother or my children..I mean nobody calls to even say hello to me. I go to church and try to find friends but these people are so self-absorbed that some barely speak and look at you like your the dirt on their shoes.....is this just me or does anyone else relate

Don't give up. Some of your friends may come back around- some may not. It is like when you get divorced- some of the people you associated with while you were married aren't really there any more. I can understand if you are reluctant to call some of your old friends. As far as the folks at church, I am sorry they are behaving like that. Regardless of your past, when you come to the Lord, He accepts you as is. Those at the church should do the same- perhaps maybe find a church with a more diversified congregation or you could check and see if your present church maybe needs a volunteer for maybe VBS or help in the nursery. If you want to "talk" in more depth, go to my profile and message me. Just rest assured this sometimes happens when you change your life- there are those around you who don't know how to handle it. Peace be with you.

I lost friends when I heard the calling of the Blood God Khorne. I still had a few before I started taking skulls for his skull throne :(

SWEETS wrote:

I am practically new to myspace..You know when I heard of myspace it seemed like a place for teens to "hook-up"..It seemed like the newest fad and the cool thing you can go to myspace and find a "friend with benifits" because thats all 99% of the men want anyways..Any how since I have gotten saved and became a Christian (to the very best of my ability)..I notice I have 0 real friends..I mean where my phone used to ring off the hook daily..no one calls at all besides my mother or my children..I mean nobody calls to even say hello to me. I go to church and try to find friends but these people are so self-absorbed that some barely speak and look at you like your the dirt on their shoes..Now I heard you can find friends online..NOW THIS IS A BIG LIE..I have had people contact me and thinking they want a conversation, all of a sudden its..what is your a/s/l..then what is your phone number..can I call you and how much they wanna sex you up and brake your back out.."mind you I still havent even said my real name to these clowns"..but it does hurt awful bad and it is very lonely being a christian these days when the whole world has turned evil..I love the Lord so very much..and I am physically dying to self..so I can be renewed in the spirit and become closer to him..and when I say dying to self I mean..I no longer do the things that is so called the "down" things to do that the world does..I dont fornicate, I dont want to, I really dont want to be touched at this point in my life..so I guess I am gonna be a lonely woman because I am not dropping it like its hot and rolling over like a dog...is this just me or does anyone else relate

You are 31 and you just recentaly relized that deep down you have zero true friends? Hell im 15 and I relized that, I only have one true friend. But yes there are many people that arent your true friends, most of my "friends" would sell my ass down the drain for a taste of alcohol, or girls. It should always be bros before hoes

Friends are over rated anyhow

SWEETS wrote:

You learn who your "real" friends are when you become a Christian.

Really I have found it to be just the opposite. You find out which Christians were really your friends after you stop being one.



It's natural human behaver, we will always group to those who think like we do.

SWEETS wrote:

I am practically new to myspace..You know when I heard of myspace it seemed like a place for teens to "hook-up"..It seemed like the newest fad and the cool thing you can go to myspace and find a "friend with benifits" because thats all 99% of the men want anyways..Any how since I have gotten saved and became a Christian (to the very best of my ability)..I notice I have 0 real friends..I mean where my phone used to ring off the hook daily..no one calls at all besides my mother or my children..I mean nobody calls to even say hello to me. I go to church and try to find friends but these people are so self-absorbed that some barely speak and look at you like your the dirt on their shoes..Now I heard you can find friends online..NOW THIS IS A BIG LIE..I have had people contact me and thinking they want a conversation, all of a sudden its..what is your a/s/l..then what is your phone number..can I call you and how much they wanna sex you up and brake your back out.."mind you I still havent even said my real name to these clowns"..but it does hurt awful bad and it is very lonely being a christian these days when the whole world has turned evil..I love the Lord so very much..and I am physically dying to self..so I can be renewed in the spirit and become closer to him..and when I say dying to self I mean..I no longer do the things that is so called the "down" things to do that the world does..I dont fornicate, I dont want to, I really dont want to be touched at this point in my life..so I guess I am gonna be a lonely woman because I am not dropping it like its hot and rolling over like a dog...is this just me or does anyone else relate

your fone doesn't ring anymore cos u went psyhco and tried to convert all your friends now didn't you?

you need to try and relax urself don't worry about other people enjoy urself in God's creation while u can, if u can't find friends at your church you need to find another church after informing them with a megaphone during mass why u are leaving them with their hypocricy.

John wrote:

I lost friends when I heard the calling of the Blood God Khorne. I still had a few before I started taking skulls for his skull throne :(

u were using ur friends skulls weren't you??

SWEETS wrote:

I am practically new to myspace..You know when I heard of myspace it seemed like a place for teens to "hook-up"..It seemed like the newest fad and the cool thing you can go to myspace and find a "friend with benifits" because thats all 99% of the men want anyways..Any how since I have gotten saved and became a Christian (to the very best of my ability)..I notice I have 0 real friends..I mean where my phone used to ring off the hook daily..no one calls at all besides my mother or my children..I mean nobody calls to even say hello to me. I go to church and try to find friends but these people are so self-absorbed that some barely speak and look at you like your the dirt on their shoes..Now I heard you can find friends online..NOW THIS IS A BIG LIE..I have had people contact me and thinking they want a conversation, all of a sudden its..what is your a/s/l..then what is your phone number..can I call you and how much they wanna sex you up and brake your back out.."mind you I still havent even said my real name to these clowns"..but it does hurt awful bad and it is very lonely being a christian these days when the whole world has turned evil..I love the Lord so very much..and I am physically dying to self..so I can be renewed in the spirit and become closer to him..and when I say dying to self I mean..I no longer do the things that is so called the "down" things to do that the world does..I dont fornicate, I dont want to, I really dont want to be touched at this point in my life..so I guess I am gonna be a lonely woman because I am not dropping it like its hot and rolling over like a dog...is this just me or does anyone else relate

Though the lose of friends probably is because of your conversion,



Most of those losses are probably for the opposite reason from what you think.



Reread your post – you speak of everything in the negative.



My guess is you started telling your friends they were going to go to hell unless they convert, and stop doing all the things YOU used to do, Right?



Did you turn into a proselytizer?



If you did, then most of your friends probably didn’t leave you!



You ceased being a friend to them, and chased them away!



I finally had to tell a friend of mine, to stop e-mailing me, unless she left out all the religious crap.



Normal conversations about her kids, friends, family, and what is going on in the world, had turned into pages long tirades of Christian crap!



If you want one or two of the ones whom you really considered friends, back, call them up and talk like you used to, instead of preaching at them.